Does a person control you?

Naran

He is controlling me. If you think A is trying to control you, then it means you have fear of being controlled.

  • Release the fear of being controlled

Can you release the fear to be controlled?

Why A is controlling you? It is because you have the fear of being controlled.

  • Before releasing the fear welcome it and then accept it.

Whenever he controls you, are you resisting him?

  • Accept your resistance to him and release it.

Do you like to change him?

  • If yes, can you release the desire to change him?

What do you dislike in him?

  • Can you let go this dislike?

You may ask a different question.

What is that you disapprove, or reject/dislike in him?

Can you accept him as he is? If you get “No” then continue the exercise. You will not get an immediate yes, as you have dislikes for him.

Does this person cause fear in you? What will happen if you are standing in front of him? Is there is any feeling of insecurity?

  • Release your feelings of insecurity.
  • Release your feelings of him.

What do you think will happen if you are in front of him? Do you want this fear to happen?  If no, then release it.

  • Can you release this wanting to happen?
  • Release your fear.

How do you protect yourself? Do you show your anger? Do you resist him? Alternatively, do you have the desire to separate from him or go away from him?

  • Release all those desires.

Can you now accept the person as he is? If you get ‘No”, then continue the exercise. Can you have trust in him? Does anyone think that he or she cannot accept him as he is?

Please understand, if you cannot accept him, then he will continue to be in these types of situations. If you do not want to quarrel or lose harmony, you can nullify the charge of emotions by accepting him as he is.

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About Naran S. Balakumar

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 11 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on November 3, 2013, in Ask Right Questions, Releasing, Rule Your Mind and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 8 Comments.

  1. naran sir,plz.suggest swtich words or mantra to stop the anger of the boss as most of the boss loose their temper upon the subordinates without any reasons.

  2. Im chanting Be tiny for being controlled by inlaws n husband is this enough

  3. For us and to be given to anyone else incl pets pls. suggest sw or remedy to be protected from loud noises and such that cause fear during diwali and not to get traumatised by loud cracker sounds- was thinking mimulus but would be grateful for correct guidance from you.

  4. Sir i was chanting Be tiny as in badly controlled by inlaws is it enough

  5. Want to speak to u Naran sir pls

  6. Hi m pls help my inlaws n husband badly dominate & control me since the first day of my marriage.They keep on discouraging me & insulting me for every small thing, i feel so hurt
    pls suggest some method so that i can control & dominate all & i become the decision maker in the house.
    also suggest some chanting to find a full time maid within our budget urgently

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