Author Archives: Naran S. Balakumar
Ask the question, “What I want, that I am not able to do now”.
You can do this for anything. For example, you want to move from Bangalore and settle down in Chennai. You are having this idea for one year and yet you are not able to do it.
Then ask the following questions:
- What are the advantages and disadvantages in coming to Chennai?
- What are the actions steps should I take?
- Each action step generates emotions. Release them one after another.
- What is the desire behind those emotions? Accept and release them.
- What is the advantage in being in Bangalore? Find out and release that too.
There is an advantage being in Bangalore and it works as a resistance to come to Chennai.
Accept and release your resistance, ‘I release my resistance to come to Chennai’.
Single most advantage: http://wp.me/p39EiO-R
Advantage Acceptance: http://wp.me/pwblL-D
Everybody has guilt, anger, resentment, hatred and fear to some extent. May be, because of that, we have developed many diseases and experiences in our lives. In addition, we don’t know whom to forgive.
So can we help ourselves to heal? What step I can take to heal myself?
Read the postings. Prioritize your needs. Start to heal one by one.
How to prioritize what you want from life: http://wp.me/pwblL-3A
Don’t Feel Sorry for the Sari: http://wp.me/ptUDl-2P
Acceptance is not compromising. If you want to know about acceptance, then you have to read the great epic Ramayana.
Some things we can accept and some we don’t. We have to probe in and find that out.
For example, you may wish you were aged twenty-five, while you are actually sixty-five now.
Sometimes we say if I would have met him fifteen minutes before his death, I could have done this, done that and so on.
We think like that. There is always an inherent desire to change something. It is all because of Dwesha (a part of mind), which does not like pain in any form.
Affirm many times, “I release my desire to change or control the past”.
Tears of Joy: http://wp.me/ptUHD-3B
My husband has changed his behavior: http://wp.me/ptUDX-3K
No it is not so. You can express your anger. But, your anger should not develop into hatred towards the person you are angry about. You should not continue to feel angry.
Once the anger has served its purpose, you should forget about it.
When you alight/get down from the bus you are travelling, you will not be running behind it.
In the same way, once you have expressed your emotion, you should not keep thinking about it. The reason being, if you stay with an emotion for a long time, your body will get affected.
Unpack your anger: http://wp.me/ptUIO-46
A Brief on Bach Flower Remedies: http://wp.me/ptUDl-7E
Even though you are successful in your career…!!!
By nature, you are pure – positive, fearless, loving etc. In that sense, all of us are united at a level – called as Sub-conscious Mind or Universal Mind, where we have access to this positive energy.
At this level we are perfect, can do anything we want and be anything we would like to be.
However, we bring in the energy of negativity from outside. Thus, fear, anger, hatred etc., comes from outside and not inside us.
Then, how to get rid of the part that you don’t want?
“I RELEASE the part that produces anger”.
“I OPEN and ALIGN WITH the part that activates love, and forgiveness”.
Attend the workshop on 19th Oct, to know more about your shadow self: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1Y
I want to share one wonderful experience with you, which have happened recently. I’m doing one audit for a company and this month there was physical verification of stock.
A fortnight back, I went with my team and compiled the report. The report was throwing out some serious abnormalities. Generally we sign the report on the same day. Since difference was out of proportion, I called the GM of the company and we had a meeting on Monday and I had submitted the report.
After a week, on Monday, one senior official called me and he started blaming me that I had given a wrong report. He never allowed me to talk as well. Then he had sent a mail asking for the qualification of persons carrying on the audit. Immediately after the call I chanted “PINE” and “WILLOW”.
Immediately, I saw R Mohan online and mailed him all the details. He asked me to do “Living with awareness” and also chant the switch words, “BOW TINY CONCEDE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE”. I chanted that.
But, I was kind of hurt. I also chanted, “AGRIMONY HEATHER WATER VIOLET HOLLY HORNBEAM”, which you had mentioned for the peaceful visit in the blog.
Then whenever the worry came, I kept on surrendering the problem to “The Mother”.
I had the constant fear whether they would change the auditor, since I was doing it for my friend.
Suddenly yesterday late evening they called up and said confusion is mainly because they had given the wrong details for book stock and apologized to me.
I thanked the Divine and also was a bit harsh with them for giving the wrong data.
One more interesting input here is the person who called and shouted at me on Monday had already known that the details given by them are wrong on Saturday itself.
How did they change it then? I had to learn a lesson and the healing had taken place.
My many thanks to you and R Mohan!
Whenever any event happens our reaction is instantaneous. This happens because of the memory of the past behaviour. This pattern if repeated puts you into the karmic loop.
When anything happens, behave opposite to your normal behavior. Here, only releasing techniques help one person.
When you react contrary to your normal behaviour (behaviour includes reaction, your thoughts, your conclusion etc.) you are out of the karmic loop.
Best of luck