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Desire for approval in action
You can list the ways you seek desire for approval:
- Thank you for your appreciation
- I don’t want to hurt his feelings
- I should not reject him
- If I do this, he will be happy
- If I do this, he will not get angry
In addition, list the ways by which you allow yourself to be controlled by others or control others – Desire for approval.
You can term it as fear of rejection or disapproval, for example to influence others through Batch Flower Remedies (list this item too).
We have so much desire to control others and events. We use Bach Flower remedies either with a desire to change ourselves or others.
70% of the time we are operating with this desire and may be more, but not less. If we release this desire, most of the problems will be solved by itself!!
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Let us say, you want to come to Chennai.
Release your likes about Chennai then only you can come to Chennai.
- I release my likes for Chennai.
I like Chennai because of my liking to Hotel Saravana Bavan and Marina Beach in Chennai.
I accept my liking for Chennai.
Then, I release my liking for Chennai.
- I release my dislikes for Chennai.
I dislike Chennai, because of auto drivers, and it is very dirty.
What’s the desire that operates here?
There is a desire to control and to change it. For example, we say, ‘If I am given power, I will change it in no time’.
Here, we are only releasing the desires (or dislikes).
Likewise you can do the same when you are moving to a foreign country.
Release both your likes and dislikes related about a situation you wanted to change.
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