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NLP for accepting a bad relationship

Naran

Brain is the hardware of the mind. The brain always stores memories of the people we like, in one compartment, and the people we do not like in another compartment.

At the same time, we come across people who are neutral to us, to whom we have no likes or dislikes. They do not have a participation in our life. They will be kept in a different compartment of the brain.

Remove the dislike for the person

  • Visualize a white screen in front of you.
  • Close your eyes. Use your hands and do it.
  • Where is the person whom you like? They will be in one place.
  • Find out where the person you dislike are stored inside your brain. You will get a feeling in some part of your brain.
  • Find out where neutral compartment people are.
  • Move the person you dislike to neutral place.

Repeat the exercise over a few days or weeks until you can release the dislike for the person disliked.

Do the releasing first

Do not do this without doing the releasing technique first as you should know how much your feelings and desires are responsible for disharmony caused.

Automatically, the other person you hate will go from you.  Even if he is present, you will not be afraid that he can control you. He will not be in your life to control you anymore.

Therefore, you can concentrate on something else. The NLP exercise will reduce our dislikes, but we have to release first.  Do this on a daily basis.

We should remove our arrogance, feelings and our demanding nature. If you don’t expect positive feelings of release, then do the NLP technique

Why did I select the third compartment?

One can accept the person totally after doing releasing techniques. There is no doubt about that.

Though, if we see that person again, we won’t know what to do. If we put them in a neutral compartment, then we will accept them easily.  Therefore, you should not give up on ‘RULE your MIND’ techniques.

Neutral compartment will help us in accepting a person.

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ADVANTAGE Acceptance

Rule: Total Acceptance

I Hate Vegetables

Meera aged twelve, doesn’t fancy vegetables in any form and fruits as well. She wanted to change he diet pattern.

Shobana taught her EFT informally and gave her the affirmation, “Even though I don’t like to eat vegetables and fruits, I choose to accept myself totally”.

Within three days of tapping on herself, Meera could comfortably start eating vegetables and fruits.

Sleepless in Chennai

Venu was doing his last year in an Engineering College. So he had a many a late night preparations for the final year exam and the project as well.

He didn’t mind going to sleep late, though he found it difficult to sleep well.

He will be lying in bed for an hour or two, before he can go into a sleep. In addition, he was getting few nightmares too. Therefore, when he gets up in the morning, he was feeling tired and restless.

Accept Myself Totally

After hearing about Meera from Shobana, he affirmed the following while tapping on him:

“Even though I am not happy about my progress in my studies, I choose to accept myself totally”.

“Even though I feel as a looser, I choose to accept myself totally”.

He started sleeping well.

He is continuing this approach for other problems as well. He find as long as he can accept himself in a situation, he is able to handle the situation comfortably.

ADVANTAGE Acceptance

“I choose to accept myself totally” – what does that mean.

It means we accept ‘My feelings’, ‘My Thoughts’ and ‘My Life Situations’ as ‘Myself’ indicates all of them.

The energy stream produced among them can thus be settled amicably.

When you accept, what happens to the mind – which is the creator of all emotions and thoughts?

When you don’t observe the thoughts or emotions, they will dominate you. Then you are led by the mind. 

You will behave in the same way as you behaved in a similar situation from the past. Thus, one becomes a Robot.

When you affirm, “I accept myself totally”, the mind is baffled because it didn’t not expect any observation from you.

When you go on accepting the thoughts and emotions as they arise, they cannot stay in the same energy pool. Thus it won’t be able to sustain the old thinking cum action pattern.

New Choice New Behaviour

They just die down (get released) and you become free.  When you become free, you have a new choice. You can wait for events to unfold in a different way.

Accepting is nothing but changing the path of mind. Therefore, it can access a neural path and a new behavior is elicited.

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