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Naran

Develop confidence when jobless

You can learn a lot by observing people. Learn to understand your existing relationships – with your family members, friends, and relatives.

Move with them closely, express and communicate with love as if you were meeting them for the first time and as though this would be the last time you are going to meet them.

Contribute something to them lovingly. Help them in any manner you can. It need not be financial.

This will boost your self-confidence and enthusiasm. Normally one feels confident and enthusiastic only after getting the job. Now, you are acquiring this state before getting the job.

This will also make you a better person. You will also learn how to relate to your colleagues and superiors when you move to your future workplace.

When you are ready to learn anything new, then this period would become a period of relaxation, instead of a period of frustration. 

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Fighting for Happiness and Success

ALAMELU

As you said do not resist allow things to happen!!

How cannot we resist – myself verge of losing job – hubby not yet got job – severe mental stress killing me very badly. How I allow myself not to feel stressed. Please let me know?

Naran

When you are on the verge of losing the job, will your worry or fear get the job back?

If so, have fear and worry.

Your fear and worry or anger is what is known as Resistance.

When you accept what is happening, you may see and utilize other avenues.

A message is received (from the incident why you lost the job).

Instead of being overtaken by the rush of emotions and thoughts, and becoming judgmental about what is happening (which is of no use), go within and watch your reaction.

Say, Yes I accept this emotion. I release this.

Go on releasing whatever thought comes to your mind.

After sometime, analyze why this emotion or these types of thoughts come.

Ask yourself is it because of your desire to change the event?

If the answer is yes, say, I release my desire to control or change what is happening.

Ask another question.

Are all the emotions because of fear?

Whatever we fear will manifest.

Say, releasing this fear, I release my desire for security.

Then when the mind is almost clear of restlessness, start chanting “I accept whatever happens totally”.

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I am jobless, what should I do?

Rule: Increase Your Self-esteem by Working with Others

  • You can learn a lot by observing people.
  • Learn to understand your existing relationships – with your family members, friends, and relatives.
  • Move with them closely, express and communicate with love as if you were meeting them for the first time and as though this would be the last time you are going to meet them.
  • Contribute something to them lovingly. Help them in any manner you can. It need not be financial.

This will boost your self confidence and enthusiasm. Normally one feels confident and enthusiastic only after getting the job. Now, you are acquiring this state before getting the job. This will also make you a better person. You will also learn how to relate to your colleagues and superiors when you move to your future workplace.

When you are ready to learn anything new, then this period would become a period of relaxation, instead of a period of frustration.

Rule: Release Your Emotions Gain Energy

Burdensome Work

Satya’s servant was absent for a week.

Her younger sister Viji asked Satya to look after the household work and said, “You are making less money than me. So I think you should take care of the house today”.

As one would expect, Satya was very upset. However, she couldn’t say ‘No’ to her sister.

She decided to try the 1% release technique (see below).

She released her feelings and emotions one percent at a time. She did this until she has almost released every thought and emotion she was feeling then.

Surprisingly after a hard day’s work she felt more energetic than usual!

Reason Behind The Effectiveness of Rule Release 1% of Emotion

Let us say you are unemployed.

I will explain this in the form of a mathematical equation.

X = Y + 10, where ‘X’ is the unemployment state, and ‘Y’ is your present state of mind.

You do not have a direct influence over X.

But you can change Y into Y-1 or Y-2, which will in turn change X.

I mean, if you change your state of mind(Y), your unemployment status ‘X’ cannot remain the same.

Because Y has changed, X has to change too. So you have to become employed (soon).

Change Your Thoughts/Emotions, Change Your Life Situations!

Satya’s Steps to Execute RULE

What is my current feeling?

I feel terribly irritated.

Can I release the feeling of irritation?

No.

Can I release just 1%?

Ok.

I release 1% of the irritation.

Can I release some more?

Yes.

I release 10%.of the irritation.

Like this she did. After some time, she was totally free from irritation.

Why we have to release 1%?

Then there won’t be a protest from the mind as you are releasing only one percent. Therefore, the mind keeps quiet and feels comfortable about the situation.

Though, this action releases the control of your thoughts and emotions over you.

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